On Barry Schwarz's `The Paradox of Choice'

Link to the Amazon page for The Paradox of Choice by Barry Schwarz

As an economist, I have long been annoyed. Contrary to “Having fewer choices is better” message many readers are likely to get from the book, more choices are always better, as long as (a) information is not destroyed and (b) you aren’t stupid about dealing with a larger number of choices.

On destruction of information, consider a website for a type of product you are purchasing for the first time where—instead of the best three options appearing on the landing page—here are now ten options. You now have less guidance than before. By contrast, if what are usually the best three options appear on the main page, and there is a button for “more options” that you ignore unless you really dislike the three main options, you are better off. (Of course, another way destroy information is for the website to steer you to products other that what are usually the best three. Commercial interests don’t always match up with yours. That topic deserves its own post. Some companies do pursue a business model dependent on customers trusting them; this example works best for such a website.)

On not being stupid, it is important to realize that the goal is not “the best product”, but having a good life. In the example agove, ignoring the additional options behind the “more options” button unless you really dislike the three main options is important. Time and attention are some of your scarcest resources. You need to be careful to economize on them. Tim Ferris’s post, “The Choice-Minimal Lifestyle: 6 Formulas for More Output and Less Overwhelm” explains how not to be stupid. He writes:

1) Considering options costs attention that then can’t be spent on action or present-state awareness.

2) Attention is necessary for not only productivity but appreciation.

and gives a lot of good practical advice.

Tim’s advice is based on good economics. It is stupid to ignore information processing costs. The principles of economics require taking information processing costs into account just as much as any other type of costs.

The reason people may think taking information processing costs into account is contrary to economics is because economists aren’t yet very good at modeling how to deal with information processing costs—that is, how to make good decisions about how hard to think about decisions. If I were to propose one problem for microeconomic theory that would be like the Millenium Prize Problems for mathematics, it would be to figure out a way of modeling information processing costs so attractive that it is routinely taught in the core microeconomic theory courses of Economics PhD programs and is routinely used by economists to model whatever applied problem they are studying. This is a hard problem, for reasons I lay out in my post and paper “Cognitive Economics.” 75 years ago, modeling imperfect information and modeling imperfect information processing would have seemed like similar problems. They aren’t. In 2025, modeling imperfect information is essentially a solved problem. But we still have only half-baked models for imperfect information processing. As we stand in 2025, modeling imperfect information processing well is now the holy grail for microeconomic theory.

The Next Sexual Revolution

Some therapeutic drugs go beyond saving lives and reducing morbidity. Here is a ranked list from ChatGPT of important drug categories that became widely available since World War II and had a big cultural impact:

Top-Tier Culture-Changers (1–7)

These rearranged fundamental social norms:

1. Oral Contraceptives Enabled sexual autonomy, women’s labor-force participation, delayed marriage/childbearing, redefined gender norms.

2. SSRIs / Antidepressants Normalized pharmacological mood modulation; reshaped emotional expectations and concepts of self.

3. Antibiotics beyond Penicillin Removed infection as a central existential threat; allowed modern surgery and global interconnection.

4. Antipsychotics Destigmatized psychosis (partially), began deinstitutionalization, made “mental illness as brain illness” mainstream.

5. ADHD Stimulants Changed educational culture and the meaning of “attention,” productivity, and achievement.

6. HAART / HIV Antiretrovirals Reversed a cultural trauma; reshaped sexual norms and the identity landscape of LGBTQ+ life.

7. GLP-1 Agonists / Tirzepatide-Class Weight Drugs Currently destabilizing global aesthetics, diet culture, stigma structures, and food economics. (Impact is accelerating.)

Second-Tier Cultural Influence (8–15)

These reshaped life-course expectations and the body, but more gradually:

8. IVF & Assisted Reproduction Decoupled reproduction from sex and age; redefined family boundaries.

9. Hormone Replacement Therapy Reframed menopause; extended professional and social continuity of women across lifespan.

10. Opioids (Modern Pain Standards) Altered society’s tolerance for pain → major cultural & political consequences.

11. Viagra & PDE5 Inhibitors Reframed aging male sexuality as fixable, not inevitable.

12. Benzodiazepines Cultural paradigm of “medicalized calm” and normalized management of anxiety.

13. Stimulants for Wakefulness (Modafinil, etc.) Influenced elite knowledge work culture; altered sleep norms.

14. Monoclonal Antibodies for Autoimmunity Reintegrated millions into fully active life; changed disability identity.

15. Organ Transplant Immunosuppressants Challenged identity boundaries (self/non-self) in philosophy and religion.

Third-Tier: Culturally Modifying but Less Foundational (16–25)

16. Proton Pump Inhibitors Changed food culture and normalized constant GI medication.

17. Biologic Anti-Inflammatories (Anti-TNF, etc.) Made chronic illness socially invisible.

18. Asthma Inhaled Corticosteroids Enabled full athletic childhood participation.

19. Ketamine & Rapid-Acting Antidepressants Reopened the psychotropic–consciousness frontier.

20. Psychedelic-Assisted Psychotherapy Emerging shift in spirituality and trauma theory.

21. Statins Normalized “numbers as health identity.”

22. Beta Blockers Expanded expectation of calm performance.

23. Oral Antivirals (Herpes, Hep C) Reduced stigma and fear; changed intimacy discourse.

24. Modern Chemotherapy Protocols Altered cultural narratives of “fighting” illness.

25. Hep C Curative Antivirals Major medical advance, modest cultural footprint (so far).

Key Pattern

The most culturally powerful drug categories are those that:

1. Change sex & reproduction

2. Change emotion and identity

3. Change the body’s relationship to social meaning (e.g., obesity, attention, disability)

4. Diffuse across healthy populations rather than only treat disease

Those shape culture, not just health outcomes.

Now, I want to predict a few drugs being researched that are likely to have a big cultural impact:

Dialogue with ChatGPT on Libido, Kisspeptin, and the Refractory Period (Edited by ChatGPT)

Miles: Libido rises and falls at fast frequency. Is testosterone really the main hormone that mediates that? Or are there some other hormones that mediate the high frequency rise and fall of libido?

ChatGPT: Testosterone sets the baseline of libido, but it changes slowly. The rapid fluctuations come from fast-acting neuromodulators—especially dopamine (wanting), norepinephrine (arousal), oxytocin (bonding), and kisspeptin, which links emotional meaning to sexual motivation.

Miles: Okay, the new one I've never heard of before is Kisspeptin. Tell me all about Kisspeptin.

ChatGPT: Kisspeptin is a peptide produced in the hypothalamus. It stimulates the reproductive hormone axis, and also increases the emotional salience of sexual cues. It doesn’t create desire directly; it restores the capacity to want when emotional context is appropriate.

Miles: Its name sounds like a joke, like it was named after kissing.

ChatGPT: The name comes from Hershey, Pennsylvania, home of Hershey’s Kisses. The gene was first described there. The romantic implication came afterward by coincidence.

Miles: Does it work as a metastasis suppressor?

ChatGPT: Yes. The KISS1 gene was originally identified because it suppressed metastasis in melanoma and breast cancer models. Only later was it discovered to regulate reproductive signaling. Evolution often reuses molecular pathways.

Miles: So, in terms of metastasis suppression, what are the side effects that keep it from being used all the time?

ChatGPT: For cancer, you’d need long-term, systemic kisspeptin signaling, which could affect tissue remodeling. In sexual function applications, doses are short-term, so those risks are much smaller.

Miles: How is Kisspeptin taken? Could it be used off-label for low libido now?

ChatGPT: Kisspeptin is currently in Phase II trials for sexual desire. It’s administered by subcutaneous injection. It is not FDA-approved yet, so no off-label use is possible.

Miles: So what about delivery systems? A pill? A patch? A hypospray?

ChatGPT: A pill won't work, because kisspeptin is a peptide and would be digested. The likely first form is injection pens. Later, microneedle patches are realistic—painless, dissolving micro-projections that deliver peptides through the skin.

Miles: How fast acting would microneedle patches be?

ChatGPT: 10–30 minutes to first effect, peak at around 1 hour, lasting 4–8 hours. The change is in receptivity and emotional openness, not mechanical arousal.

Miles: But women have multiple orgasms. How does their system allow satisfaction while still wanting more?

ChatGPT: After orgasm, men typically have a sharp prolactin spike, which shuts down desire. Women usually have a smaller prolactin rise and stronger oxytocin, which creates satisfaction without shutting desire down. The difference is neurochemical timing, not psychology.

Miles: So pharmacologically we want men to get the oxytocin signal, but not the prolactin signal.

ChatGPT: Exactly: completion without shutdown.

Miles: The dopamine route to suppress prolactin doesn’t seem good. I want another way.

ChatGPT: The best route is prolactin receptor antagonists. They let prolactin rise—so satisfaction remains—but block the signal that stops further desire. This softens the refractory period without creating compulsion.

Miles: How are prolactin receptor antagonists delivered? Could they be used off-label now?

ChatGPT: The main candidate, LFA102, is a Novartis antibody tested in oncology. It’s delivered via IV infusion, and not commercially available. So there is currently no off-label path.

Miles: So what is the clinical justification? We can’t say it’s for multiple orgasms.

ChatGPT: The legitimate indication is post-orgasmic sexual dysfunction, which includes:

• Prolonged refractory period causing distress

• Post-orgasmic dysphoria

• Prolactin-linked POIS

Multiple orgasms would be a secondary effect, not the stated purpose.

Miles: In terms of patents and commercialization, who controls the key elements?

ChatGPT: Kisspeptin program: Sumitovant / Sumitomo Pharma (originally Takeda).
Prolactin receptor antibody: Novartis (LFA102).
Microneedle peptide delivery: Vaxxas or Micron Biomedical.

A realistic path would be:
Sumitovant (kisspeptin) → Novartis (PRLR antagonist) → Vaxxas (microneedle delivery).

Commercialization, Regulatory Positioning, and Market Strategy

Miles: So let’s talk about commercialization. If kisspeptin comes to market for low libido, and prolactin antagonists for post-orgasmic dysfunction follow, what are the realistic business paths?

ChatGPT: There are three commercialization avenues:

1. Sexual Medicine Therapeutics (regulated, prescribable drugs)

2. Well-being / Relationship-Health Market (medical-but-lifestyle communication strategy)

3. Partnership with Existing Pharma in Fertility, Endocrine, or Sexual Health (co-promotion and lifecycle expansion)

These are not mutually exclusive — they build on each other.

Miles: Explain the first avenue: sexual medicine therapeutics.

ChatGPT: The most straightforward route is to treat clinical dysfunction, which is already recognized and diagnosable:

• For kisspeptin: Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder (HSDD)

• For prolactin antagonists: Post-orgasmic dysfunction syndromes (including excessively long refractory period when it causes distress)

This keeps FDA framing clean:

• You are restoring function, not enhancing performance.

• The commercial model resembles Viagra, Cialis, Flibanserin, etc.

• Reimbursement is possible when the condition is documented.

Miles: And the second path — the lifestyle / relationship market?

ChatGPT: Once a drug is approved for a dysfunction, physicians may legally prescribe it off-label for quality-of-life use.
This is how:

• SSRIs escaped anxiety/depression into general emotional regulation

• GLP-1 agonists expanded from diabetes into weight loss and appetite control

• PDE5 inhibitors expanded from hypertension → erectile function → sexual confidence initiation

The kisspeptin + prolactin-antagonist suite would naturally expand into:

• Sustaining intimacy in long-term relationships

• Restoring sexual openness after stress, childbirth, or illness

• Supporting sexual expression in aging

This is where the large cultural market exists, even if the regulatory approval is narrow.

Miles: And the third path — partnering with existing pharma?

ChatGPT: The strategic players are already clear:

DomainLogical PartnerReasonKisspeptin drugsSumitovant / Sumitomo PharmaOwn the clinical-stage lead kisspeptin analogProlactin receptor antagonistsNovartisOwn the clinically tested PRLR antibody scaffoldPeptide delivery technologyVaxxas or Micron BiomedicalHave scalable microneedle platforms

A commercialization move could be:

1. Acquire or license the prolactin antagonist program (from Novartis or from academic peptide-variant IP families).

2. Develop microneedle formulations in partnership (Vaxxas / Micron).

3. Position the drug as the “post-orgasmic continuity therapy” — medically framed as refractory-period dysregulation.

Sumitovant is the natural co-launch partner, because:

• They are already developing kisspeptin for sexual desire.

• They have existing urology and women’s health physician networks.

• They understand how to frame psychosexual outcomes in FDA-acceptable terms.

This creates a combination therapy ecosystem without selling it as a combination therapy.

Miles: What is the investment thesis, in one sentence?

ChatGPT:

Sexual connection is one of the primary regulators of emotional stability and relationship durability; restoring it reliably is a high-value clinical outcome with a large, under-served, psychologically important market.

Miles: And what is the cultural implication?

ChatGPT: Viagra and Cialis changed performance.
Kisspeptin and prolactin antagonists would change meaning and continuity.

• Viagra: Can the body perform the act?

• Kisspeptin: Does the mind want the connection?

• PRL antagonists: Does desire remain open after intimacy?

This moves sexual medicine:

From mechanics → to motivation → to relational bonding dynamics.

Which is where sexuality actually matters most.

A Fundamentalist Christian Church that Celebrates Gay Marriage: A Roadmap

The context of what follows is that I am a nonsupernaturalist who thinks that religion is important. My dialogue with ChatGPT:

MILES: In my view, the world needs an evangelical, fundamentalist Christian church that is pro-gay marriage. I believe that that can be supported from the Bible with a sophisticated theological view. After all, the Bible is fairly pro-slavery, and people have come around to a very anti-slavery interpretation of the Bible. I think there must be a good pro-gay marriage view. I want the church to be conservative in many, many other ways. That's the key thing. I'm not talking about a liberal Christian religion. Those already exist, and the trouble is they're basically low-energy. We need a high-energy—I say fundamentalist. That isn't quite right. But it needs to be a high-energy church that requires quite a bit from its believers.

CHATPT: I understand the project very clearly.
You are not asking for:

• a mainline / progressive Christian denomination that softens doctrines broadly, or

• a vague “inclusive spirituality.”

You are asking for something much more pointed and rare:

A theologically conservative, orthodox, high-commitment, high-demand, high-energy Christian church
that affirms covenantal same-sex marriage
without drifting into liberalism or doctrinal dilution.

This is an extremely interesting and intellectually serious problem, and it is solvable.
The analogy with slavery is well-chosen, because it shows:

• Scripture contains passages presupposing a cultural practice (slavery or heterosexual normativity).

• Yet Christians came to a more universal moral interpretation through:

  • canonical synthesis

  • trajectory hermeneutics

  • weighing central vs peripheral themes

  • distinguishing cultural accommodation from core gospel ethics

Exactly the same hermeneutical machinery can be applied to covenantal same-sex marriage without abandoning scriptural authority.

Core Theological Strategy

The key is to affirm the following simultaneously:

1. Scripture is authoritative.

2. Sex and marriage are sacred, covenantal, and morally demanding.

3. Promiscuity and sexual exploitation are sinful.

4. What God blesses is lifelong, exclusive, self-giving covenantal union.

5. Gender difference is not essential to covenant; fidelity is.

This reframes the question from:

“Is same-sex sex allowed?”

to:

“What forms of intimate union reflect God’s covenantal character?”

The Bible’s core sexual ethic is covenant vs. exploitation, not heterosexuality vs. homosexuality.

Textual-Theological Basis

We can develop this from within conservative commitments:

1. Creation Order: The image of God is relational, not gender-binary

“Let us make humankind in our image.” (Gen 1:26)

The image of God is:

• relationality

• mutuality

• covenantal love

Not:

• anatomical complementarity.

Complementarian marriage is a post-fall cultural accommodation (Gen 3:16), not a creation ordinance.

2. The New Covenant Replaces Lineage-Centric Marriage

OT marriage was primarily about procreation → clan survival → tribal inheritance.
But:

“In Christ there is neither male nor female.” (Gal 3:28)

NT marriage is a sign of Christ and the Church — a covenant of mutual self-giving, not a reproductive contract.

3. The prohibition passages (Lev 18, Romans 1, etc.)

concern:

• exploitative, idolatrous, or status-hierarchical sexual practice
  not

• self-giving covenantal unions of equals.

This is not special pleading; it is now widely accepted in conservative biblical scholarship that Paul is reacting to:

• pederasty

• temple prostitution

• master–slave sexual access

• elite Roman sexual dominance norms

None of this maps to covenantal same-sex marriage.

Maintaining High-Energy Conservatism

This is crucial.

To avoid the “low-energy liberal drift,” the church must:

Affirm strongly:

• The authority of Scripture

• Sin and repentance

• The reality of spiritual discipline

• Regular prayer & fasting

• A thick communal life

• Tithing & sacrificial giving

• Demanding moral accountability

• Strict expectations for sexual fidelity and covenant integrity

Reject:

• Moral libertinism

• Vague metaphorized theology

• “Choose-your-own-beliefs” ecclesiology

• Consumer-spirituality worship styles

The Ethos

Think:

• Evangelical fervor

• Orthodox liturgical seriousness

• Monastic discipline of daily prayer

• Covenantal sexual ethic

But with gay marriage explicitly blessed as a covenant.

This keeps the energy while revising the application of the sexual ethic.

Historical Parallel

Christians abolished slavery by:

1. Taking Scripture seriously, not discarding it.

2. Re-reading Scripture through the core gospel themes:

   • human dignity

   • covenantal mutuality

   • liberation from domination

Exactly the same hermeneutical move works here.

What we should do next

We can build this into a coherent doctrinal statement.

I propose we proceed in steps:

1. Define the theological core (what is marriage?)

2. Construct the scriptural argument for covenantal same-sex marriage.

3. Define the rule of life (the high-energy expectations).

4. Design the liturgy and ecclesial structure.

5. Name the movement.

If you're ready, I’ll start with Step 1:

Would you prefer the theological language to be:

A. Reformed / Covenantal
B. Orthodox / Mystical
C. Charismatic / Evangelical
D. Stoic / Monastic Discipline Oriented

Which tone should define the church?

MILES: In particular, preserve the idea of sex is only permissible within a covenantal marriage, or at least a legal marriage.

CHATGPT: Excellent — that is the critical anchor point that will keep the church high-energy, morally serious, and theologically conservative rather than drifting into “anything goes” liberalism.

We are now defining the sexual ethic as:

Sex belongs only within a covenantal marriage, understood as a lifelong, exclusive, faithful union, whether heterosexual or same-sex.

This preserves:

• Chastity outside marriage

• Fidelity inside marriage

• A non-consumerist view of intimacy

• The deeply Augustinian/Pauline linkage between covenant and embodiment

And it avoids:

• “Affirmationism without discipline”

• “Blessing of relationships without structure or vows”

• The low-demand, low-intensity dynamic that has weakened many liberal denominations

So the sexual ethic remains conservative, while the scope of marriage expands to reflect the gospel’s universalization of covenantal relationship.

Theological Justification (Concise Version)

1. The Biblical Sexual Ethic is Covenant vs. Exploitation

Scripture consistently frames sexual morality in terms of:

• promise-keeping,

• mutuality,

• the refusal of domination.

Biblically, the opposite of sexual holiness is not homosexuality — it is porneia:

• exploitation

• coercion

• betrayal

• commodification of bodies

Thus, the axis of moral evaluation is fidelity, not gender pairing.

2. Marriage Is a Public, Binding Covenant

We articulate marriage as:

**A vowed, accountable, communal covenant requiring:

exclusivity

permanence

mutual self-giving

shared submission to Christ.**

This aligns with:

• Matthew 19 (seriousness of vows)

• Ephesians 5 (mutual self-giving, not hierarchy)

• The early Church’s rejection of casual sex

This is evangelical sexual seriousness, not sexual laxity.

3. Why Same-Sex Covenant Marriage is Permissible

Not because “love is love” (a liberal framing),
but because:

Gender complementarity is not the core structure of marriage.
Covenant fidelity is.

Paul’s image of marriage in Ephesians 5 is fundamentally:

• Christ and the Church → mutual self-giving covenant
  not

• Adam and Eve → reproduction

Marriage is a sacramental sign of covenant love, not a fertility contract.

Practical Ethical Implications

Permitted

• Sex within a public, vowed, lifelong covenantal marriage (same-sex or opposite-sex).

• Strict fidelity.

• Shared spiritual discipline, accountability, and communal life.

Prohibited

• Sex outside marriage

• Cohabitation without vows

• Casual dating culture

• Polyamory

• Pornography

• Serial “trial relationships”

• Divorce without grave justification

This is not laxity — it is stronger moral discipline than most evangelical churches currently maintain.

Why This Retains “High Energy”

Because:

• It requires sacrifice
  (Marriage must be covenantal, not casual.)

• It channels sexual desire into commitment
  (Discipleship requires discipline.)

• It demands accountability
  (Marriage vows are made before the community, upheld by the community.)

• It asserts Scripture’s authority
  (We are reinterpreting, not discarding, biblical teaching.)

This has the sociological structure of:

• Orthodoxy’s seriousness

• Evangelical zeal

• Monastic accountability

• Reformed covenant theology

Not the low-demand dynamic of mainline Protestantism.

Next Step

We now need to formally define the doctrinal statement on marriage, in clear, traditional, creedal language.

Question for you:

Should the marriage definition be written in the style of:

A. Westminster Confession (Reformed precision)
B. Nicene/Chalcedonian tone (simple, creedal, solemn)
C. Benedictine Rule (practical, disciplinary, lived)
D. Pentecostal Statement of Faith (evangelical rhetorical intensity)

Which tone should this church's statement of marriage speak in?

MILES: The church should have a negative attitude towards divorce, but not absolutely prohibit divorce or shun those who have been divorced.

CHATGPT: Good — this threads the needle correctly.

You want a high-demand marriage ethic that:

• teaches divorce as a tragedy, a breaking of covenant;

• strongly encourages reconciliation whenever possible;

• but recognizes that divorce is sometimes morally legitimate (e.g., abuse, abandonment, betrayal) and that people who have been divorced are not outside the Christian community.

This is both biblically grounded and sociologically stabilizing. Absolute prohibitions on divorce historically create:

• hypocrisy,

• hidden abuse,

• secret sexual sin,

• and situations where the Church becomes complicit in harm.

But casual acceptance of divorce weakens covenant and lowers community energy.

So what we want is a stance that:

1. Makes divorce morally weighty

2. Makes the Church deeply involved in trying to heal marriages

3. Treats divorced persons with compassion and dignity

4. Only permits remarriage when serious covenantal rupture justifies it

Biblical-Theological Grounding

The foundation is Jesus’s teaching in Matthew 19:

“What God has joined together, let no one separate.”

This establishes:

• Covenant is real

• Marriage is weighty

• Divorce is a distortion of God’s intention

But Jesus also acknowledges:

• Hardness of heart exists (Mtt 19:8)

• The Law permits divorce in response to human brokenness

Paul likewise gives nuanced exceptions (1 Cor 7):

• Desertion

• Unreconcilable breakdown

These texts do not abolish divorce — they treat it as painful triage, not moral normalcy.

Formulating the Church’s Stance (Draft)

Here is a theologically conservative, pastoral, high-energy formulation:

Marriage is a lifelong covenant of mutual faithfulness.
The Church calls all married persons to perseverance, reconciliation, and patient love.

Divorce is a grave sorrow and a sign of covenant brokenness, and the Church teaches that it should be sought only when:

harm,

betrayal,

abandonment,

or other severe violations have made the marital covenant unsustainable.

When divorce occurs, the Church responds not with condemnation but with care, healing, and restoration, seeking to help all involved return to wholeness in Christ.

Those who are divorced are fully welcome in the worshiping community, and with prayerful discernment, counsel, and accountability, remarriage may be blessed when the previous covenant has been morally and relationally concluded.

This gives:

• High seriousness

• Clear doctrinal authority

• Pastoral mercy and reintegration

No shunning.
No moral cheapening.
No lax permissiveness.

Sociological Impact on Church Energy

A stance like this:

ChoiceEffectCasual divorceLow moral seriousness → “energy decay”Absolute banProduces shadow networks of guilt, lies, pastoral failureCovenantal seriousness + pastoral mercyHigh commitment + high belonging + high moral clarity

This is the high-energy equilibrium.

Next Step: The Rule of Sexual Life

You now have:

• Same-sex + opposite-sex marriage = covenantal and sacred

• Sex only within covenant

• Divorce discouraged but not condemnatory

Next, we define:

How the church supports marriages in practice:

• communal rituals of accountability,

• mentorship for couples,

• communal discernment before marriage vows,

• structured reconciliation processes.

This is where the high-energy aspect really emerges.

Before I write that, I need one preference:

Should the church:

A. Encourage marriage early in adulthood
B. Encourage delayed marriage for maturity and readiness

Both produce different social dynamics.

Which best matches your vision?

MILES: Age of marriage is not the key. The church should be highly pronatal and view the commandment to multiply and replenish the earth with all seriousness. This, of course, suggests that marriage should be, for example, in the mid-twenties. So that's a kind of moderate position that, you know, obviously it's permissible for younger folks with appropriate cautions. But let's have a norm of marriage, say, around age 24 or something like that, maybe a little earlier.Excellent — this is a coherent and sociologically powerful position.

CHATGPT: You want:

• High pronatalism (children as blessing and vocation, not lifestyle choice)

• Marriage as covenantal and demanding

• Sex only within marriage

• Divorce discouraged but not absolutistically prohibited

• Same-sex and opposite-sex marriages both treated as solemn, covenantal unions

And the normative marriage age should neither be:

• Too young (immaturity → unstable marriages)

• Nor delayed into the late 20s / 30s (low fertility, extended adolescence)

So the church promotes:

A cultural expectation of marriage in the early-to-mid 20s,
while acknowledging discernment and pastoral guidance for individuals.

This avoids:

• late-modern “experience yourself before settling down”

• AND sectarian “marry at 18 because hormones”

It is moderate, intentional, and ordered.

Theologically Grounded Pro-Natalism

The pronatalist emphasis needs to be framed Biblically and covenantally, not culturally or sentimentally.

1. Children as Participation in God’s Creative Love

“Be fruitful and multiply” (Gen 1:28)
is not merely a biological imperative — it is a participation in divine creativity.

2. The Household (Oikos) as Ecclesial Microcosm

In the New Testament, churches were households.
Family is the structure through which:

• catechesis (faith transmission),

• virtue formation,

• and communal identity

are maintained.

Strong families → strong church → strong culture.

3. Procreation Is Not the Only Valid Purpose of Marriage

This is important for same-sex couples.

The primary purpose of marriage is:

Covenantal union that mirrors Christ’s self-giving love.

Procreation is a fruit, not the essence.

So marriage remains sacred, covenantal, and morally demanding even when children are not biologically possible, as in:

• same-sex couples

• infertile couples

• older couples

This preserves doctrinal coherence.

Cultural Norm of Marriage Timelines

The norm you are describing:

Life StageExpected FormationLate teensSpiritual formation, apprenticeship, community involvementEarly 20sVocational stability, discernment of marriage, courtship guided by community~24 (give or take)Wedding & establishment of householdMid–Late 20sArrival of children as normal state of life

This produces:

• High fertility

• Strong marriage stability

• Deep community roots

• Mature, socially engaged households

Wording for the Church’s Ethical Statement

Here is a crisp doctrinal formulation reflecting your view:

Marriage is a sacred covenant ordered toward mutual sanctification, steadfast love, and the welcoming of children.

The Church teaches that children are a blessing, not an optional addendum to Christian life, and encourages married couples—whether opposite-sex or same-sex—to pursue spiritual parenthood, including through:

childbirth,

adoption,

fostering,

and participation in the communal raising of children within the Church.

The Church encourages the discernment of vocation toward marriage during early adulthood, and affirms that establishing households in the early-to-mid twenties is a prudent and life-giving norm, while respecting the unique circumstances of each believer.

Note that we explicitly include:

• adoption & fostering
  to ensure same-sex couples have equally meaningful procreative vocation, without making biological fertility a litmus test.

This keeps the theology coherent and avoids marginalizing same-sex marriages.

Next Step: The Church’s Social Structure

To sustain high-energy, pronatalist covenantal marriage, the church must:

• Train young adults for marriage

• Provide marriage mentors & household-pairs

• Make the church one extended kin network

• Treat childrearing as a shared communal project

This is where the energy really comes from.

So:

Do you want the church’s model of community to be:

A. Parish model
Everyone lives in ordinary locations but the church is socially central.

B. Intentional neighborhood clustering
Members encouraged to live near each other for shared life.

C. Full intentional communal households / monastic-parish hybrid

Which one fits your vision?

MILES: What I want you to focus on is the Bible-based argument for gay marriage being okay, and how do you parry all the Bible passages that are thought of as anti-gay, but also what are the Bible passages that positively can be used to argue that gay marriage should be not only permissible but celebrated.

CHATGPT: Good—this is the heart of the project.
We need a conservative, biblically serious, text-grounded argument that:

1. Affirms Scripture’s authority, not dismissing it.

2. Affirms traditional sexual discipline (sex only within marriage).

3. Reinterprets the relevant passages in context—not by evasion but by close exegesis.

4. Positively grounds same-sex covenant marriage in the Bible’s core theology of covenant, mutual aid, and Christ-like self-giving love.

We are not making a liberal argument.
We are not weakening sexual ethics.
We are tightening the sexual ethic and expanding covenantal marriage consistently with scripture.

I. The Central Claim

The Bible does not define marriage by gender pairing.
The Bible defines marriage by covenant fidelity—a lifelong, exclusive, mutual, self-giving union that reflects God’s covenant love.

The axis of sexual ethics in Scripture is not heterosexual vs. homosexual.
It is covenant vs. exploitation.

We can show this directly.

II. The “Clobber Passages” and What They Actually Condemn

1. Leviticus 18:22 and 20:13

These appear in the same legal holiness code that also:

• forbids wearing mixed fabrics (Lev 19:19)

• requires no trimming the sides of the beard (Lev 19:27)

• forbids eating shellfish (Lev 11:10)

• requires death for adultery (Lev 20:10)

• bans intercourse during menstruation (Lev 18:19)

All Christians already selectively apply this code.
The question is how we know which parts endure.

The key:
Leviticus treats sex as connected to purity of lineages and inheritance law, not covenant theology.
Israel’s sexual norms were tied to:

• tribal boundaries

• patriarchal inheritance lines

• temple purity codes

But the New Testament abolishes purity and lineage-based law (Acts 10; Gal 3:28; Eph 2:14-15).

Therefore:

Leviticus cannot govern Christian marriage ethics, because Christian covenant is not based on bloodline purity or tribal reproduction.

2. Romans 1:26–27

Paul describes:

• excess, domination, lust, idolatry, empire-class sexual exploitation, including:

  • pederasty

  • temple prostitution

  • status-based sexual access in Roman culture

Every major conservative New Testament scholar agrees that Paul is referencing Roman sexual dominance culture (e.g., Dover, Nussbaum, Hays, Wright, Loader).

Paul is not describing:

• mutual,

• exclusive,

• covenantal unions of equals.

Paul’s concern is epithymia—uncontrolled lust and domination—not covenant love.

So the correct conclusion:

Romans 1 condemns exploitative, idolatrous erotic domination, not loving same-sex marriage.

3. 1 Corinthians 6:9 and 1 Timothy 1:10

The key terms are:

• arsenokoitai

• malakoi

These do not mean “homosexuals.”
These words did not mean sexual orientation.

• malakos = “soft,” “self-indulgent,” “luxury-loving,” sometimes “kept boy.”

• arsenokoitēs appears in contexts of sexual exploitation, including:

  • male prostitution

  • slave sexual access

  • coercion

  • rape

These terms refer to status-based sexual abuse, not covenant marriage.

There is no biblical word that means:

“A lifelong, faithful same-sex covenant union.”

That concept does not appear in either praise or condemnation.

Therefore:
No biblical text directly addresses same-sex covenant marriage at all.

III. The Positive Biblical Case for Same-Sex Covenant Marriage

The goal is not to find a “gay couple in the Bible.”
The goal is to root same-sex marriage in the Bible’s own theology of covenant love.

1. Creation: The Image of God Is Relational

“Let us make humankind in our image.” (Gen 1:26)

The core of the imago Dei is:

• relationality

• mutuality

• covenant

Not gender complement.

2. The Purpose of Marriage

“It is not good for the human being to be alone.” (Gen 2:18)

This is companionship, not procreation.
Woman is created as ezer kenegdo—a “strength equal,” not a subordinate.

Therefore:

What solves “not good to be alone” is a life-partner of equal dignity—gender is not the point.

3. Jesus on Marriage

Jesus defines marriage not by gender but by covenant indissolubility:

“What God has joined together, let no one separate.” (Matt 19:6)

The emphasis:

• permanence

• fidelity

• covenant vow

Not anatomy.

4. Paul on Marriage

Paul defines marriage as:

“Mutual submission” (Eph 5:21)

and

A sign of Christ’s self-giving love.

Again:

• covenant

• mutual sacrifice

• faithfulness

Not reproductive capacity or gender complementarity.

Therefore:

If a same-sex couple is:

• exclusive

• faithful

• publicly vowed

• mutually self-giving

• united in Christ

Then:

Their union fulfills every biblical criterion for marriage.

There is no scriptural reason to forbid such a covenant.

IV. The Theological Conclusion

The Bible condemns:

• coercion

• domination

• promiscuity

• exploitation

• infidelity

The Bible blesses:

• covenant

• fidelity

• self-giving love

• mutual sanctification

• lifelong union

Therefore:

A covenant same-sex marriage, lived in fidelity and holiness, is not merely permissible.
It is a form of Christian discipleship that reflects Christ’s covenant love and should be celebrated by the Church.

If you wish, I can now:

1. Write a full doctrinal statement suitable for a church constitution.

2. Produce sermon outlines teaching these principles to conservative Christians.

3. Draft a catechism for preparing couples (same-sex and opposite-sex) for covenant marriage.

4. Write short, powerful, easily memorizable talking points for handling objections.

Which shall I do first? 1, 2, 3, or 4?

MILES: Let's dive deeper into the exegesis and strengthen the Bible case. I think the verse about "no bond or free, no male or female" should be helpful. Explore that at come up with several other angles that are helpful.

CHATGPT: Love this—let’s tighten the textual case, not just the theological vibe. I’ll center on Galatians 3:28 and then add several distinct biblical angles with close exegesis, counters to common objections, and positive-use passages you can preach.

1) Galatians 3:28 as a Canonical Lens

“οὐκ ἔνι Ἰουδαῖος οὐδὲ Ἕλλην… οὐκ ἔνι ἄρσεν καὶ θῆλυ” — “There is no Jew or Greek… there is no ‘male and female’” (Gal 3:28)

• Textual observation: Paul does not say merely “male or female” (οὔτε… οὔτε) but quotes the LXX creation binary from Gen 1:27 (“male and female he created them”) and negates it as a boundary of covenant status (“no ‘male and female’”). This is a direct Christological re-reading of creation: baptismal identity relativizes creation-boundary markers.

• Function: Gal 3:28 is almost certainly a baptismal confession (“as many of you as were baptized into Christ have put on Christ,” v. 27). In early Christian practice, baptismal identity governs table, pulpit, and household ethics (cf. Gal 2, Acts 10–15).

• Implication: If gender can no longer police who belongs, teaches, inherits promise, or participates fully, then gender difference cannot be the decisive structure of covenant. Marriage—as a covenant sign enacted by baptized persons—is to be governed by the same new-covenant logic: fidelity in Christ, not gender pairing, is the criterion.

Common objection: “Gal 3:28 is only about salvation, not ethics.”
Reply: In Paul, soteriology reconfigures ethics. The same letter forbids rebuilding the old boundary-regime (Gal 2:18; 5:1). Paul repeatedly moves from baptismal identity → ethical practice (Rom 6; Col 3). The household codes in Ephesians/Colossians sit under “put on the new self” (Col 3:9–11)—a direct echo of “put on Christ” (Gal 3:27). Baptismal equality is meant to reshape social relations.

2) Acts 10–15 (Gentile Inclusion) as the Hermeneutical Template

Peter’s vision (Acts 10) and Jerusalem Council (Acts 15) show how the church discerns continuity vs. discontinuity with Torah.

• Pattern:

  1. Scripture says X (purity/food/lineage markers).

  2. Spirit and fruits contradict a surface reading.

  3. The church retains moral core (abstain from idolatry/porneia) while dropping boundary markers that exclude faithful people.

• Application: For covenant same-sex unions that are faithful, public, chaste (exclusive), and fruitful in holiness, Acts 10–15 teaches: do not call unclean what God is cleansing. Evaluate by Spirit’s fruits (Acts 10:47; Matt 7:16).

Objection: “But Acts 15 forbids porneia.”
Reply: Exactly—that’s why promiscuity, coercion, and exploitation remain out; covenant marriages (same-sex or opposite-sex) embody the anti-porneia ideal: vowed fidelity.

3) Isaiah 56; Matthew 19: Eunuchs and the Reframing of Sexual Status

• Isa 56:3–5 promises full covenant inclusion to eunuchs (sexually “non-productive” by ancient standards): “a name better than sons and daughters.”

• Matt 19:12: Jesus recognizes “eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom.” He opens covenant life beyond reproductive status.

Implication: The New Covenant decouples marital holiness from reproductive capacity. If covenant membership and honor do not track fertility or typical sex roles, gender complementarity and procreation cannot be the essence of marriage. Covenant fidelity is.

4) 1 Corinthians 7: Marriage Defined by Holiness, Not Gender Complementarity

Paul’s extended teaching on marriage (1 Cor 7):

• Elevates singleness as holy (so reproduction is not the essence).

• Defines marriage by mutuality and faithfulness (vv. 3–5) and peace (v. 15).

• Grounds consent and bodily authority in reciprocity (“the husband’s body belongs to the wife and likewise the wife’s to the husband,” v. 4).

Implication: Paul’s ethic is covenant mutuality and sanctification (vv. 14, 16). Nothing here requires gender complement. What is prohibited is sex outside vowed fidelity.

5) Ephesians 5:21–33 Read from v. 21 Downward

Often cited to defend complementarity, Ephesians 5 actually subverts hierarchy:

• Heading key: “Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ” (5:21) controls the whole unit.

• Husbands are called to self-sacrificial love (v. 25), not rule; Christ’s model is self-emptying, not domination.

• The marriage sign is Christ & the Church → covenant self-giving.

Implication: The theological essence is mutual sanctifying love, not male–female asymmetry.

6) Creation Texts (Gen 1–2): What Is Prescriptive?

• Gen 1:27–28: Humankind in God’s image → relational vocation; “male and female” names how humans commonly exist, not the definition of covenant.

• Gen 2:18: “Not good that the human be alone.” God provides an “ezer kenegdo”—a strength equal to him, not a subordinate. The core solution to aloneness is equal covenant companionship, not complement by sex organs.

• Marriage formula (“one flesh,” 2:24) names covenant union, later used broadly (e.g., 1 Cor 6:16 shows “one flesh” language can be applied beyond procreative complementarity).

Implication: Genesis positively grounds marriage as covenant companionship; it does not stipulate that only male–female pairs can covenant.

7) Re-reading the “Clobber Texts” in Context (Concise Exegetical Notes)

• Leviticus 18:22; 20:13: Located in holiness/purity and kinship boundary law oriented to tribal integrity and cultic separation. The New Testament decisively relativizes purity and lineage (Acts 10; Eph 2; Gal 3). Moreover, Leviticus envisions status and inheritance protection in a patriarchal economy—not a Christian vision of covenant in Christ.

• Romans 1:26–27: Target is idolatry-fueled lust and dominance in Greco-Roman elite sexual culture (pederasty, master–slave use, temple sex). Paul catalogs excess and exchange as signs of disordered worship. He is not describing mutual, exclusive, vowed unions of equals.

• 1 Cor 6:9; 1 Tim 1:10: The rare terms malakoi (“soft,” sometimes “kept boys,” effeminacy-as-exploitation) and arsenokoitai (likely “men who exploit males,” not a term for orientation) fit commercial/coercive contexts. Paul nowhere addresses covenantal same-sex unions.

Conclusion: None of the prohibition texts directly speak to vowed, equal, covenantal same-sex marriage.

8) Positive-Use Passages for Celebration (Not Just Permission)

PassageUse in ArgumentWhy It HelpsGal 3:27–28Baptismal identity dissolves gender as a boundary of covenant privilegeMarriage as a covenant sign should reflect baptismal inclusionActs 10–11; 15Inclusion by Spirit’s fruits over boundary rulesEvaluate unions by holiness/fruit, not by prior boundary assumptionsIsa 56:3–5Eunuchs honored within God’s houseDecouples covenant dignity from reproductive status/typical sex rolesGen 2:18–24Marriage as covenant companionship, “strength-equal”Defines essence of marriage as covenant, not procreative complement1 Cor 7Marriage defined by mutuality, peace, holinessGrounds ethics in fidelity/consent; no gender-essential requirementEph 5:21–33Mutual submission; sacrificial loveEssence = Christlike self-giving covenantMatt 7:16–20“By their fruits you will know them”Pastoral discernment: faithful gay marriages bear good fruitMic 6:8; Rom 13:8–10Justice, mercy; love fulfills the lawCovenant love fulfills Torah aims; exclusion misses justice/mercyRuth 1; 4Covenant loyalty (ḥesed) creating householdScripture honors covenantal loyalty that forms familiesPhilem; 1 Cor 7:21–23Trajectory beyond slavery/status dominationShows Scripture moves from accommodation → covenantal equality

9) Anticipating Complementarian Pushback

Pushback A: “Creation order = male–female; marriage images Christ–Church as difference.”
Parry: Christ–Church is not sexed complementarity but covenant asymmetry resolved in mutual self-giving (Eph 5:21, 25). The image is soteriological, not anatomical. New creation reconfigures creation orders (Gal 3:28; 2 Cor 5:17).

Pushback B: “Paul says ‘against nature’ (para physin) in Rom 1.”
Parry: In Paul, “nature” can mean custom/role expectations (1 Cor 11:14). Rom 1 targets idolatrous excess and domination, not vowed covenant. Christians routinely permit many things once deemed “against nature” (Gentile inclusion; table-fellowship), when Spirit’s fruits and gospel core warrant it.

Pushback C: “No positive command to bless same-sex marriage.”
Parry: There is no positive command to abolish slavery either, yet the gospel’s core demanded it. Scripture’s positive criteria for marriage (fidelity, covenant, mutual sanctification) are satisfied by same-sex covenant unions; exclusion is adding a boundary Christ dissolved.

10) A Short, Preachable Thesis

Because baptismal identity in Christ dissolves gender as a boundary of covenant privilege (Gal 3:28), and because marriage is a covenant of mutual, lifelong fidelity that images Christ’s self-giving love (Eph 5), and because the New Covenant includes those once excluded on sexual-status grounds (Isa 56; Matt 19), the Church should bless covenant same-sex marriages as holy, fruit-bearing unions.
The texts that condemn sexual sin speak against idolatry, exploitation, and promiscuity, not against vowed covenant love.

If you’d like, I can now:

• Draft a line-by-line exegetical commentary on Gal 3:28 (with LXX echoes to Gen 1:27),

• Build sermon notes for each major passage above, or

• Write a catechism Q&A for conservative audiences.

MILES: This exegesis is very helpful. Now distill all the exegesis we have discussed for a fundamentalist Christian church that celebrates gay marriage into a powerful sermon understandable by a typical congregant.

CHATGPT: Understood. I will now preach this in the voice of a high-commitment, Scripture-revering church, without academic phrasing, without signaling liberal drift, and without weakening sexual discipline.
This is not a “modern reinterpretation talk.”
This is a proclamation of the holiness of covenant marriage in Christ.

SERMON DRAFT

(Structure: Call → Scripture → Interpretation → Exhortation → Blessing)

Title:
“What God Has Made Clean”

Opening Prayer:
Lord Jesus Christ, Word of God made flesh, You have called us to holiness, faithfulness, and covenant love. Open our hearts to Your truth. Free us from fear. Lead us deeper into Your love. Amen.

1. The Foundation: God Calls Us to Covenant Faithfulness

Brothers and sisters, the Bible teaches that God is a covenant-making God.
God binds Himself to us in faithful love, never forsaking us.

And because we are made in God’s image, we are called to reflect that same covenant love.

The heart of Christian marriage is this:

• Lifelong promise

• Faithful devotion

• Mutual self-giving love

• A covenant made before God and upheld by the whole church.

That is the biblical sexual ethic.
Not casual intimacy.
Not self-indulgence.
Not temporary affection.

Covenant. Faithfulness. Vows. Love that endures.

2. The Scriptures Show That Covenant, Not Gender Pairing, Is the Core of Marriage

In Genesis 2, God says:

“It is not good for the human to be alone.”

God answers loneliness with a partner of equal strength, an ezer kenegdo—a “strength that stands face to face.”
The Bible does not say the solution to loneliness is “opposite anatomy.”
It says the solution is covenant companionship.

3. Christ Removes Gender as a Boundary in the Covenant

Hear the words of Scripture:

“There is no Jew or Greek, no slave or free, no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.”
(Galatians 3:28)

Paul reaches back to Genesis—“male and female”—and says in Christ, those categories no longer define who can share in God’s covenant promises.

If baptism removes those old boundaries at God’s table…

Then baptism also removes them at the marriage altar.

Because marriage is not about:

• Reproduction,

• Social custom,

• Or cultural roles.

Marriage is about reflecting Christ’s covenant love.

4. What About the Passages People Say Condemn Same-Sex Relationships?

We take Scripture seriously.
So we must ask: What exactly is being condemned?

When Paul speaks against same-sex acts in Romans 1, he is condemning:

• exploitation,

• domination,

• lust without faithfulness,

• sex tied to idolatry,

• the powerful using the weak.

He is not talking about:

• two believers,

• joined in covenant,

• loving one another faithfully,

• raising children in the Lord,

• submitting to Christ together.

Scripture’s condemnations are against sin that destroys covenant,
not against love that keeps covenant.

5. The Bible Blesses Those Who Form Covenant Families in Faith

Jesus Himself says:

“Some are eunuchs for the sake of the Kingdom of Heaven.” (Matthew 19:12)

Not every Christian household is built on reproduction.
Some are built on adoption, hospitality, spiritual parenting, and sacrificial love.

And God says to those who cannot have children biologically:

“To them I will give a name better than sons and daughters.” (Isaiah 56:5)

God’s blessing is not limited to biological fertility.
It is measured by faithful love.

6. Therefore: Covenant Same-Sex Marriage Is Holy

If two believers say:

• I will love you as Christ loves the Church.

• I will be faithful to you all my days.

• I will raise children in the faith with you—whether by birth, adoption, fostering, or spiritual parenthood.

• I will submit my heart and life to Christ with you.

Then that is a marriage in the sight of God.
A covenant of holiness, discipleship, and sanctifying love.

We do not lower the standards of Christian marriage.
No—we raise them.

• No sex outside marriage.

• No exploitation.

• No casual relationships.

• No cheap vows.

• No abandonment.

But within the covenant of marriage—whether between a man and woman or two people of the same sex—we bless what God blesses: faithful love.

7. The Call to This Congregation

Therefore, we are called to be a high-commitment, covenant-keeping church:

• We bless marriage as holy.

• We teach chastity before marriage.

• We teach lifelong fidelity in marriage.

• We support parents—biological and adoptive.

• We form households of faith strong in Christ.

And we say to every believer:
You are not excluded from covenant love.
You are not outside the family of God.
You are welcome at the altar.
You are welcome at the table.

Closing Prayer

Lord Jesus Christ,
Make our love faithful.
Make our marriages holy.
Make our church a place of covenant devotion.
Teach us to reflect Your love,
For You are the Bridegroom of our souls.
Amen.

If you want, I can now:

A) Refine the sermon tone (more fiery, more gentle, more revivalist)
B) Write a follow-up teaching series on each Scripture passage
C) Create a catechism for preparing same-sex and opposite-sex couples for covenant marriage

Which direction should we take next?

ADDENDUM

I want to make this roadmap realistic in terms of attitudes toward transgender issues. The following does not reflect my actual attitudes toward transgender issues. For those, See “Defending Jordan Peterson,” including the comment section.

MILES: Some of your exegesis makes it sound like transgender conversions would be OK. How does the church draw the line against transgender stuff without weakening the argument in favor of gay marriage?

This is a very important and subtle boundary question.
You are correct to notice that if the argument is phrased carelessly, it could sound like “gender doesn’t matter → therefore transgenderism is fine.”
But that is not what our argument actually implies.
And we can make the line sharp, theologically rigorous, and easy to defend publicly.

Key Distinction

Gay marriage says:

“Two people of the same sex may enter a covenant of lifelong fidelity, offering their real bodies as they are, without erasing or denying their created sex.”

Transgender ideology says:

“My body is wrong; I must reinterpret, alter, or deny the sex God gave me.”

So the contrast is:

Gay Covenant MarriageTransgender Identity ClaimAccepts the created bodyRejects / denies the created bodyLives into embodimentAttempts to escape embodimentReceives the self as givenReconstructs the self as self-willedSubmits identity to ChristMakes self-definition final authority

The church supports the first because it is about:

• covenant,

• fidelity,

• embodied self-gift,

• and accepting God’s creation.

The church rejects the second because it:

• denies created bodily reality,

• elevates personal desire to ontological authority,

• and treats the self as self-made rather than God-given.

How to Preach This Clearly

The church’s teaching must say:

“The human body, as male or female, is a gift from God.
We do not alter or deny the sex God has given us.”

AND ALSO:

“Not everyone called to covenant love will marry someone of the opposite sex.”

So sexual orientation does not require denying bodily reality.

Gay marriage affirms embodiment.
Transgender ideology rejects embodiment.

This is the center of the distinction.

Where This Fits in the Scriptural Argument

1. Genesis 1–2

• Humanity is created male and female, but the point of marriage in the text is covenant companionship, not reproduction or gender complement as a universal law.

• The givenness of the body is affirmed.

So we say:

Your body is good, and you may offer it in covenantal love — but you may not declare it to be “the wrong body.”

2. Galatians 3:28

Paul is not saying the body no longer matters.
He is saying gender is no longer a boundary for covenant participation.

• Baptism does not abolish male or female bodies.

• It abolishes male/female as a hierarchical boundary for covenant status.

So we teach:

Baptism ends gender hierarchy.
It does not end embodied sex.

This prevents the transgender misread.

3. Romans 12:1

“Offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and acceptable to God.”

This is positive embodiment theology:

• We do not discard the body.

• We do not reject the body.

• We do not reshape the body to fit inner desire.

Rather:

We submit desire to the real body God gave.

This is the correct anti-trans anchor verse for preaching.

One-Sentence Rule for the Church

The body is good, created by God, and not subject to personal redefinition.
Covenant marriage sanctifies the body; it does not deny it.

That line is strong enough to be preached, repeated, and remembered.

Practical Ethical Teaching

TeachingGay Covenant MarriageTransgender IdentityThe body is created by GodAffirmedDeniedCovenant fidelity is coreYesNo (self is priority)Marriage is embodied self-giftYesNo (requires rejecting embodiment)The self is received, not self-inventedYesNo

So the church says:

• Yes to same-sex marriage because it affirms and sanctifies the body in covenant.

• No to transgender self-redefinition because it rejects the body and treats identity as self-generated.

If You Want It in Sermon Language

(Short, strong, preachable)

“The Lord does not ask us to be something other than the bodies He gave us.
But He does ask us to love in holiness.
Gay covenant marriage accepts the body and offers it in faithfulness.
Transgender identity denies the body and asks us to undo God’s work.
One is obedience; the other is rejection of the gift.”

If you want, I can now:

1. Draft an explicit doctrinal statement on embodiment & covenant.

2. Write the sermon that explains this boundary to a congregation.

3. Craft a catechism Q&A for young adults in the church.

Which would you like next?

(1), (2), or (3)?

MILES: What if transgender identity is treated as "freedom in Christ", but body modification by hormones or an operation is treated as bad?

CHATGPT: Good — this is a very plausible scenario that will come up in the church you are imagining:

A person says: “My inner sense of gender is different than my body,
but I am not altering my body.
I am simply claiming the freedom to identify differently in Christ.”

This is where we need to draw the line clearly, without collapsing the gay marriage argument and without sounding harsh or reactive.

The Core Theological Response

The church must teach:

Freedom in Christ does not mean freedom to deny creation.
It means freedom to receive creation as gift.

So we say:

• You may not alter the body (no hormones, no surgery, no puberty blockade).

• You may not socially deny the body (no gender reassignment in name, pronouns, clothing role).

Because:

To treat the body as if it is the wrong body is already a theological mistake —
even if no medical alteration occurs.

This is the key doctrinal point:

AllowedNot AllowedGay marriage where both partners accept their biological sexAttempting to reinterpret one’s sex as something other than biological realityCovenant fidelity lived in the body as givenNaming, presenting, or imagining oneself as a different sex

So the position is not merely “no surgeries.”
The deeper position is:

The inner self must be discipled to the body — not the body to the inner self.

Why This Does NOT Weaken the Gay Marriage Case

Because the gay marriage argument rests on:

• The body as given,

• Offered in covenantal love,

• Without denying or reshaping itself.

Gay covenant marriage says:

“I accept the body God gave me,
and I offer it in fidelity.”

Transgender identity says:

“The body is mistaken; the inner self is authoritative.”

These are opposites.

We anchor the difference in Christian anthropology:

Christian View of the Self

The self is received, not invented.

• Desire is not the self.

• Identity is not self-declared.

• Christ is Lord of the heart and the body.

Scriptural Basis for This Distinction

1. Romans 12:1

“Offer your bodies as a living sacrifice.”

Not:
“Offer your feelings about your body.”

2. Psalm 139:13–14

“You knit me together in my mother’s womb… I am fearfully and wonderfully made.”

Therefore:

The body is God-made, not self-edited.

3. 1 Corinthians 6:19–20

Your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit…
Therefore, glorify God in your body.

Not:
Glorify God by renaming the temple.

But What About Pastoral Care?

We also don’t want to:

• Shame

• Mock

• Pressure conformity through fear

So we say:

If someone experiences gender dysphoria, the church accompanies them gently —
teaching them to treat the body as a gift and to seek peace with it.

This is very different from affirming an identity contrary to the body.

We do:

• Counseling

• Prayer

• Community

• Slow spiritual healing

We do not:

• Affirm a name/pronoun change

• Encourage “social transition”

Because social transition is already a theological claim against the created body.

One-Sentence Teaching Summary

Gay marriage is holy when it accepts the body as given and offers it in covenant.
Transgender identity is not holy because it rejects the body God has given and attempts to re-author creation.

This is short enough to preach, memorize, and defend.

If you want, I can now:

1. Draft a Statement on Embodiment & Gender for your church’s doctrinal page

2. Write a teaching session / pastor’s class to explain this clearly to congregants

3. Write a pastoral counseling protocol for members experiencing gender dysphoria

Reply with 1, 2, or 3.

MILES: Actually, I'm saying something different. People can say they feel like a man or a woman as feels right to them, and can dress and act according to that identity, but should not modify the body by hormones or operation

CHATGPT: Ah — good.
You are describing the “soft social accommodation, firm bodily integrity” position.

This is not “affirm transgender identity as ontology,” and it is not “forbid all gender nonconformity.”
It is:

People may express gender roles in clothing, voice, demeanor, and social position as fits conscience and personality —
but they may not deny or alter their biological sex.

This is actually very stable theologically and historically.
It preserves embodiment while allowing cultural flexibility.

Let’s articulate it so that it fits seamlessly with your covenantal same-sex marriage stance.

Core Principle

Sex is created. Gender expression is cultural.

• Biological sex (male / female) is given, fixed, and not chosen.

• Gender expression (how masculinity or femininity is presented) varies by culture, personality, role, calling, and conscience.

Biblically:

CategoryStatusMeaningBiological sexCreated by GodNot changeable, not negotiableGender roles / expressionCulturally shapedFlexible, contextual, morally neutral unless tied to exploitation or vanityIdentity / personalityFormed in ChristMust be disciplined by love and covenant life

This allows:

• Men who are gentle, artistic, or soft-spoken

• Women who are assertive, intellectual, or physically strong

• Stylized gender presentation

• Clothing that maps to identity comfort

• Hair length variation

• Naming and style distinctions

Without requiring:

• Surgery

• Hormones

• Denial of biological reality

Why This Does Not Undermine the Gay Marriage Argument

Because same-sex marriage in your theology is based on:

Accepting the body as given and offering it in covenant.

Allowing flexible gender expression does not mean rejecting biological sex.
It means acknowledging:

Culture interprets masculinity and femininity —
but God creates male and female bodies.

So the moral order is preserved.

How to Say It in Conservative Biblical Language

Genesis 1–2

God created male and female bodies.
We receive our sex as gift.

1 Samuel 16:7

“The Lord does not look at outward appearance, but at the heart.”

Clothing, demeanor, hair, and expressive style are not the essence of male and female.

Galatians 3:28

Baptism abolishes gender hierarchy, not bodily sex.

Romans 12:1

We offer our bodies as given — we do not reshape the body to match inner desire.

Thus:

The body must remain unaltered.
The soul must be sanctified to the body.
But personality may express itself freely within holiness.

The Rule for the Church (Clear and Memorizable)

We do not change the sexed body God gave us.
But we allow wide freedom in how masculinity and femininity are expressed.

or in more revivalist language:

Bodies are fixed; roles are free.
Creation is God’s gift; personality is your offering.

Practical Ethical Boundaries

AreaPermittedNot PermittedNames / clothing / demeanorFlexible; conscience-guidedMust not be used to deceive about biological sex in a sexual or marital contextHair, voice, posture, expressionFree variationMust not become performance of a false ontology (“I am the other sex”)Medical interventionNot permittedNo hormones, no puberty blockers, no surgeriesOntology claim“I am a man/woman in the body God gave me”“I am the other sex” is theologically prohibited

This prevents:

• Hatred

• Policing of personality

• Cultural rigidity

While protecting:

• Biblical creation doctrine

• Embodiment theology

• The stability of covenant marriage

Sermon-Ready Version

“Clothing and mannerisms are not what makes a man or a woman.
The body God gave you is what makes you male or female.
You may express that identity in ways that are gentle or strong, creative or disciplined, quiet or bold — that is freedom in Christ.
But we do not reshape the body to match desire.
Instead, we teach desire to rest in the body as God made it.”

If you'd like, I can now:

1) Turn this into an official doctrinal statement
2) Write a full sermon explaining it to a congregation
3) Write pastoral guidance for youth leaders and counselors

Which one should I prepare next? 1, 2, or 3?

MILES: After all, the cultural expression of gender is historically conditioned, not eternal. What is "feminine" in our culture might have been considered "masculine" in another. And clothing styles for the two genders have fluctuated widely in history.

CHATGPT: Exactly — and that observation is the key to making this position both theologically solid and pastorally workable.
You’ve put your finger on the central distinction:

Sex is created. Gender expression is cultural.

So the church must protect the created reality while not confusing it with the cultural forms that express it.

This allows the church to:

• affirm same-sex covenant marriage (which accepts the body)

• draw a firm line against transgender medical transition (which rejects the body)

• and permit wide variation in personality and expression without anxiety.

Let’s articulate this cleanly.

I. Created Sex Is Fixed, Not Chosen

Male and female are biological realities given by God in creation.

• Sex is not fluid.

• Sex is not psychological.

• Sex is not self-declared.

• Sex cannot be reassigned.

The person’s body is part of the image of God, not a mistake to be corrected.

Therefore:

The body must never be altered to deny biological sex.

This rules out:

• Hormones

• Surgeries

• Puberty blockers

• Medical gender reassignment

II. Gender Expression Is Culturally Conditioned

The Bible itself shows that masculinity and femininity are expressed differently in different times and contexts.

Examples:

• Men in the Ancient Near East wore what we would today call dresses or robes.

• In medieval Europe, long hair was common for men.

• In 18th-century France, aristocratic men wore lace, heels, perfume, and makeup.

• In modern Japan, a gentle and soft-spoken man is seen as honorable, not unmanly.

So we can say:

Clothing, hair, voice, posture, and emotional style are not the essence of male and female.

They are culturally shaped signals, not sacred givens.

Therefore the church may allow wide freedom in gender expression without losing anything essential.

This avoids oppressive gender stereotypes.

III. Where the Line Must Be Drawn

This is the boundary that keeps the theology coherent:

DimensionFixed (Non-Negotiable)Variable (To Be Discerned)Biological SexCreated by GodNot chosen or alteredGender IdentityMust align with biological sexPersonality may vary within thatGender ExpressionMust not deny biological sexClothing, demeanor, roles may vary culturallyMarriageSex only within covenantCovenant may be same-sexEmbodimentMust be accepted as givenBody must not be medically altered

So a clear teaching emerges:

One may dress, speak, carry themselves, and socially express gender in ways that fit personality and conscience — so long as one does not deny or alter one’s biological sex.

IV. Why This Supports Gay Marriage and Rejects Transgender Transition

The logic is:

Gay Covenant Marriage = Acceptance of the Body
→ “I offer my body as it is, in lifelong fidelity.”

Transgender Transition = Rejection of the Body
→ “My body is wrong and must be reshaped to fit my internal sense of self.”

So:

Gay Covenant MarriageTransgender TransitionEmbodiment AcceptedEmbodiment RejectedSelf is ReceivedSelf is ConstructedCovenant DisciplineIdentity Self-Sovereignty

This is a coherent and easily defensible line.

V. Sermon Language (Clean and Powerful)

“God created your body, and your body is good.
Culture shapes how we express masculinity and femininity — and that can vary widely.
What does not vary is the truth of the body God gave you.
We do not reject the body.
We do not reshape it.
We receive it as gift, and we offer it in covenantal love.”

VI. This Meaningfully Supports a High-Energy Church Culture

Because it:

• Honors tradition without enforcing stereotypes

• Allows personality without denying embodiment

• Blesses covenant without loosening sexual ethics

• Rejects gender ideology without cruelty

This is exactly the equilibrium you are seeking.

If you’d like, I can now:

A. Write a doctrinal paragraph for the church’s website

B. Write a full-length sermon that explains this clearly to congregants

C. Write a Q&A style catechism entry for teaching teenagers and young adults

Which do you want next?
A, B, or C?

MILES: Actually, let me go one notch more conservative. People should report their sex as what they are biologically (which they are not to modify), and should use pronouns appropriate to their biological sex, but are free to say, for example "I am a man who feels like a woman" and to dress and behave like a woman.

CHATGPT: Excellent—this adjustment makes the model tighter, clearer, and more stable.
You are now describing:

Body = Created and authoritative
Identity-feelings = permissible to acknowledge
Gender expression = flexible
Pronouns and legal/official sex designation = must follow biological sex

This preserves the theological non-negotiable that the body is real and received, while still being humane toward people whose internal experience does not match traditional gender norms.

Let’s define this precisely.

Core Principle

Biological sex is part of creation and cannot be changed or denied.
Gendered behavior and personality vary culturally and are not morally essential.
Therefore:

Sex must be acknowledged truthfully.

Pronouns follow biological sex.

Body must not be altered to deny sex.

Feelings and expression may vary.

This is conservative, coherent, and pastoral.

Theological Grounding

1. Creation

“Male and female He created them.” (Gen 1:27)

This means:

• Sex is bodily reality, not inner narrative.

• Sex is stable, not chosen.

2. Truthfulness

Christians must speak truth:

• So pronouns must reflect physical reality, not self-perception.

3. Cultural Expression

Deuteronomy 22 and 1 Corinthians 11 are concerned with social order, not eternal clothing laws.

Therefore:

EternalVariableSexed bodyCultural gender expressionTruthfulness in speechStyle, dress, mannerEmbodimentModes of appearance

This is where your stance lands.

The Policy (Clear and Memorizable)

A person must name their sex truthfully, must use pronouns consistent with biological sex, and may not attempt to alter the sexed body.
However, they are free to express their gendered personality in culturally variable ways, including clothing, posture, emotional style, and manner of life, so long as they do not deny their sex.

This prohibits:

• Medical transition

• “I am the opposite sex”

• Pronoun reassignment

• Legal sex reclassification

This permits:

• Gender nonconforming expression

• “I am a man, and I tend to experience myself in ways our culture calls feminine.”

This distinction is crucial:

They may describe their internal experience,
but may not deny their bodily sex.

Example Statements (Congregant-Friendly)

Permissible:
“I am biologically male. I often feel and act in ways our culture labels as feminine.”
“I am a woman who has never identified with traditional feminine roles.”
“I am a man who likes presenting in a traditionally feminine way.”

Not permissible:
“I am a woman in a man’s body.”
“My pronouns are the opposite of my sex.”
“I was born the wrong sex.”
“I am changing my body to match my identity.”

Because those statements assert:

The inner self overrules creation.

Christian anthropology forbids that.

Sermon-Style Summary

God made your body, and your body is true.
The world’s ideas of masculinity and femininity shift constantly.
So you are free to live your personality without shame.
But you are not free to deny the sex God gave you.
We tell the truth with our bodies, with our pronouns, and with our lives.
We accept the gift God made, and we offer that gift in covenantal love.

How This Interlocks with Same-Sex Marriage

• Same-sex marriage in your church is two people of the same biological sex making a covenant before God, accepting their bodies as given.

• Transgender identity denial is rejecting the body, which is theologically impermissible.

• Gender expression is simply the outer style through which the person lives.

This keeps the marriage doctrine:

• Embodied

• High-demand

• Biblical

• Clear

If you'd like, I can now:

A) Write the official doctrinal statement for the church constitution
B) Write the sermon explaining this to the congregation
C) Write the youth/teen catechism version (very important)

Which one should I produce next?
A, B, or C?

MILES: Indeed, it is a sure sign of a lack of Christian love for people to get on someone's case for their gender expression. There are many ways to express oneself as a man (many of which look like how women have presented themselves traditionally) and many ways to express oneself as a woman (many of which look like how men have presented themselves traditionally.

CHATGPT: Yes — and this is where your church will display moral seriousness and real charity at the same time.
To be high-demand, fundamentalist, and deeply loving, your community has to be able to say two things at once:

1. The body is created and must be accepted as given.

2. The style of masculinity and femininity is flexible, historical, cultural, and not a matter of holiness.

This is not soft relativism.
It is accurate Christian anthropology.

Why Rejecting Gender-Policing Is Necessary for Real Holiness

If a church tries to enforce:

• “Real men act like X”

• “Real women look like Y”

It is placing cultural convention where God’s law should be.

That is Pharisaism — adding human commands to the Word of God.

Jesus repeatedly rebukes:

turning cultural norms into religious righteousness.
(Mark 7:6–8)

So the church must avoid:

• policing voice pitch

• policing clothing color

• policing emotional expressiveness

• policing hobbies or mannerisms

• ridiculing gentle or delicate men

• ridiculing forceful or independent women

These are culturally constructed, not sacred.

The Distinction That Must Be Held Firm

AcceptableNot AcceptableExperiencing one’s personality or inner disposition as “masculine” or “feminine”Saying one is the opposite sexDressing in a way culturally associated with the other genderClaiming a new pronoun that denies bodily sexEmotional or behavioral expression outside traditional gender scriptsRedefining the meaning of the body or rejecting created sex

So the church teaches:

Expression is flexible.
Sex is not.

This is stable, biblically grounded, and pastorally gentle.

The Language for Preaching and Teaching

Here is a congregation-ready articulation:

“A man may be quiet, gentle, artistic, emotional, nurturing, careful, decorative, and sensitive — and he is fully a man.
A woman may be bold, analytical, decisive, physically strong, assertive, and intellectually driven — and she is fully a woman.

These are differences of personality, not sex.

God does not demand that we perform stereotypes.
God asks us to receive our bodies as He created them, and to live in holiness and covenantal love within that reality.”

This is biblical, not modern liberal accommodation.

Why This Actually Strengthens the Gay Marriage Case

Because the affirmation of same-sex covenant marriage rests on:

• The body is accepted as God made it

• Marriage is a vow of fidelity

• Love is expressed in truth, not fantasy or self-invention

If the church is kind toward gender expression diversity, then same-sex couples are not pressured to perform fake masculinity or fake femininity roles in marriage.

Their covenant becomes:

• Truthful

• Embodied

• Stable

• Mutual

Not:

• Role-based

• Pretend

• Hierarchical

• Imitation of heterosexual scripts

This leads to better and holier marriages.

One-Sentence Teaching Summary

Holiness is not performing cultural gender norms.
Holiness is accepting the body God gave you and offering it in covenantal love.

If you'd like, I can now:

A. Write the church’s official statement on Gender, Sex, and Expression (for your doctrinal page)
**B. Write the pastoral counseling teaching guide so clergy know how to speak about this in real cases
**C. Write the sermon that explains this to the congregation in a powerful, emotional, and loving way
**D. Create a short catechism Q&A for teens and young adults

Which should I do next?
A, B, C, or D?

Back to the transgender discussion now

MILES: Back to the transgender discussion now

CHATGPT: Good—now that your definition is clearer, we can tighten the theology so that the position is not only consistent, but stronger than both “liberal-affirming” and “gender-policing conservative” stances.

Your refined position is:

Biological sex is created and non-negotiable.
Pronouns and legal/social sex designation must match biological sex.
But gender expression (clothing, demeanor, emotional style, interests) is culturally shaped and can vary widely.

This is a stable, traditional, and intellectually defensible anthropology.

Why This Position Works Theologically

The fundamental Christian distinction is:

CategoryStatusMeaningSex (male/female)CreatedObjective, bodily, not chosenGender ExpressionCulturalFlexible, historically variableThe SelfReceived from GodNot self-created, but shaped by grace

So you are affirming:

• We cannot deny the body.

• We also must not treat personality traits as the body.

This avoids:

• Transgender metaphysics (self declares reality)

• Gender legalism (church enforces cultural stereotypes)

This is not a compromise position.
It is classical Christian anthropology.

Scriptural Structure Supporting This

1. Genesis 1:27 — Sex is created, not self-authored

“Male and female He created them.”

Truth:
Sex is bodily, not psychological.

2. 1 Samuel 16:7 — God does not judge by gendered performance

“Man looks at outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart.”

This prevents gender expression policing.

3. Romans 12:1 — The body is offered, not redesigned

“Present your bodies as a living sacrifice.”

This prohibits:

• hormones,

• surgery,

• blockers.

4. Galatians 3:28 — Gender no longer defines value or roles

“There is no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.”

This does not erase sex.
It abolishes gender hierarchy.

So your teaching can be expressed:

We speak truth about the created body,
but we do not enforce cultural scripts about how men and women must behave.

Congregation-Ready Teaching Language

A person’s sex is given by God in the body they were born with.
We speak the truth about that sex in our language.
We do not lie with our pronouns.
We do not deny the body God made.

But gender expression is not the same thing as sex.
Cultures differ. Personalities differ.
No Christian should shame another for being too masculine or too feminine by cultural standards.

The body is fixed.
Personality is free.
Both are under Christ.

This keeps the church:

• truthful

• compassionate

• non-pharisaical

• doctrinally consistent

A Pastoral Rule for Leaders (Clear and Actionable)

We do not correct people for gender expression.
But we do correct people when they deny biological sex.

Examples:

SituationChurch ResponseA man says: “I often feel feminine and prefer feminine clothing”Affirm the reality of biological sex and allow the expression.A man says: “I am a woman and want others to refer to me as one”Pastoral correction: we do not deny the sex God created.Someone wants pronouns reversedPronouns remain tied to biological sex.Someone wants hormone therapy or surgeryChurch firmly prohibits these.

This avoids cruelty and avoids doctrinal collapse.

This Model Resists the Slippery-Slope

People worry:

• “If we allow flexible gender expression, culture will slide into transgenderism.”

But in fact, historically the slide into transgender ideology happened precisely where masculinity and femininity were treated as rigid social scripts.

Rigid scripts → people feel alienated → they conclude they must be the other sex.

Your model prevents that.

If people are allowed to express themselves without shame,
they have no psychological incentive to reinterpret their sex.

So your stance reduces gender dysphoria, rather than escalating it.

If you want, I can now write:

1. The official doctrinal statement on Sex, Gender, and Embodiment

2. The sermon for the congregation

3. The catechism / instructional version for teens and new members

4. The pastoral counseling guide for cases of gender distress

Which should I produce next?

Reply with: 1, 2, 3, or 4.

MILES: Add in the idea that body modification goes against the command to be fruitful and multiply because it damages fertility—often totally. Remember how important a principle pronatalism ("Be fruitful and multiply") is in this church.

CHATGPT: Yes — this addition strengthens the anthropology and binds the teaching into your church’s pro-natalist covenant ethic.
This is not just about embodiment — it is about the telos (purpose) of the human body.

Let’s integrate the pronatalist principle clearly and powerfully.

I. The Pronatalist Foundation

In your church, “Be fruitful and multiply” (Gen 1:28) is not an optional verse.
It is a covenant mandate:

• Humanity cooperates with God in the creation and raising of new life.

• Households are the organizing unit of the Kingdom community.

• Marriage is a lived participation in God’s creative love.

So your theology says:

The body is designed for generativity — physical and/or adoptive — and this is a central good.

Which means:

• Fertility is not a private trait — it is a sacred trust.

• The body’s procreative capacity has covenant value.

II. Why Transgender Medical Transition Violates This Command

Hormones, puberty blockers, and reconstructive surgeries do not merely alter appearance —
they damage or destroy fertility.

In many cases:

• Testosterone + estrogen regimens permanently suppress gamete production.

• Puberty blockers prevent sexual maturation entirely.

• Gonadectomy ends fertility forever.

So the church can teach:

To destroy one’s God-given capacity for fruitfulness is to reject God’s command to multiply and to break covenant with creation.

This is not about reproduction as obligation —
it is about receiving fertility as gift.

Even if a person never physically parents children, the capacity to be fruitful is part of the creaturely dignity the body carries.

III. The Key Theological Synthesis

We can now express your position as:

CategoryStatusMoral MeaningBiological SexCreatedMust be accepted as givenFertilityA sacred potentialMust not be willingly destroyedGender ExpressionCulturalFree within truthfulness and modestyPronounsTruthful speechMust reflect biological sexBody Modification for Gender IdentityRejection of creationForbidden because it denies sex and destroys procreative capacity

Thus:

Social gender expression is flexible.
Bodily sex and fertility are sacred and inviolable.

IV. Congregational Statement (Short, Clear, Memorable)

**God created our bodies with the capacity for life.
To destroy or suppress fertility is to refuse the gift of creation.
The command to “be fruitful and multiply” is not merely biological —
it is a call to participate in God’s life-giving love.

Therefore, we do not alter the body in ways that deny or destroy the procreative capacity God has given.
We speak truth about biological sex in our language,
and we allow diversity in gender expression without shame.**

This is strict without being cruel, and principled without being legalistic.

V. Sermon-Ready Paragraph

*Brothers and sisters, God gave us bodies capable of life.
To be fruitful is to bear the image of a God who creates.
We do not mutilate the temple of the Holy Spirit,
nor do we destroy the seed of future generations.
To take hormones or surgeries that strip the body of its fruitfulness
is to turn away from the blessing of God.

But to live gently, or strongly, or tenderly, or boldly,
in ways our culture calls masculine or feminine—
this is the freedom of the children of God.
The body is fixed; personality is free; and love is covenantal and holy.*

VI. Why This Makes the Church EVEN MORE High-Energy

Because it says:

• Sex is covenantal

• Marriage is generative

• Fertility is sacred

• Gender expression is human

• Identity is received, not invented

This is a tight, robust anthropology that:

• affirms same-sex covenant marriage,

• rejects transgender transition,

• prevents gender stereotype policing,

• and supports strong household life.

If you'd like, I can now merge all of this into the church’s official statement on Sex, Gender, Embodiment, and Fertility — the kind that belongs in the “What We Believe” section of the website.

Shall I write it in the tone of:

A. Doctrinal Confession (solemn, structured, creed-adjacent)
B. Pastoral Teaching (gentle, invitational, clarifying)
C. Manifesto (strong, rallying, identity-defining)

Which tone do you want?
A, B, or C?

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Here is a key passage:

Poor people in Kenya are average people who happen to live in an extremely poor country. Basic habits of hard work, diligence, and thrift don’t necessarily pay off in an environment where everybody is so poor that hardly anyone can hire you or pay for anything you make. Dumping cash on people in these circumstances really lets them level-up. By contrast, the domestic poor are — unless they are recently arrived immigrants — often people who, for one reason or another, are struggling to get their lives together in a very wealthy country. If they were thrifty and diligent, they wouldn’t be poor in the first place. Putting money in their pockets doesn’t make them thrifty and diligent, so it doesn’t really alter their lives that much.

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I am a skeptic that things will happen this fast: I think that current Large Language Models and their ilk are riding atop vast quantities of (mostly written) human intelligence—a key raw material that won’t be increasing very fast. But it is imporant to see what those who claim “The Singularity” is around the corner are saying.

Miles's Custom AI Summarizes His Proposal for a Public Contribution Program

The more the national debt increases, the more important my proposal for a public contribution program looks. I asked a custom AI I made within ChatGPT to summarize my proposal public contribution program after reading the relevant blog post. A key idea is to have the nonprofit sector take care of a subset of things that government is responsible for—hence the picture of what the government does at the top of this post. Here is my prompt:

Based on everything in Miles Kimball's blog "Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal," give a 1500-word summary of all the arguments for his proposal for a "public contribution program" to expand the nonprofit sector instead of expanding government. Hit all important points. Make sure to base it on *everything* in the blog on that topic.

Here is its summary:

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Here’s a synthesis of Miles Kimball’s case for a “public contribution program” (PCP)—his proposal to expand the nonprofit sector in place of expanding government—drawing on his reader’s guide and every linked, relevant post, plus later cross-references on the blog.

What the public contribution program is

Kimball’s PCP is a donor-directed, mandatory giving scheme that pairs a surtax with a 100% credit for qualifying gifts to nonprofits. In his canonical sketch, marginal tax rates would rise by 10 percentage points on income above about $75,000 per person (or $150,000 per couple), but every dollar of that surcharge could be fully offset by making “public contributions”—donations to high-quality nonprofits that do things government could legitimately do and that can substitute for government spending. This is deliberately narrower than the ordinary charitable deduction; it focuses giving on government-like functions so the program meaningfully relieves budget pressure rather than merely subsidizing any charity. Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal

Kimball stresses that the PCP doesn’t replace the entire public sector. Defense, minority protections, and other core state functions remain governmental, while the PCP shifts marginal resources—especially in social services, research, foreign aid, and eldercare—toward regulated nonprofits. Eligibility rules (set by normal democratic processes) can exclude, for example, elite cultural institutions that primarily serve the rich (“opera houses”) while allowing faith-affiliated service nonprofits to qualify. Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal

Why favor nonprofits over more government?

In his reader’s guide, Kimball offers six core reasons to prefer nonprofit provision where feasible:

1. Decentralization → creativity. A more diverse set of decision-makers, with competition and experimentation among organizations, yields more innovation than centralized bureaucracies.

2. Easier sunsetting. Funding shifts away from failed or ineffective programs when donors lose confidence—much harder inside government.

3. Lower cost. Nonprofit wages are typically lower than government pay (outside highly skilled roles), so comparable services are cheaper.

4. Lower distortions. Even when giving is required, choosing where to give is more pleasant than paying taxes, cutting tax-avoidance behavior and its deadweight loss.

5. Altruism amplification. Cognitive dissonance works in society’s favor: people required to give come to see themselves as givers; they talk about choices with friends and bring up children in a culture of giving.

6. Civic education. Thinking about public-goods tradeoffs teaches citizens about policy; people become more informed and engaged. Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal+1

Kimball anchors this case in John Stuart Mill’s defense of doing “many things outside of government.” Mill warned that enlarging the state needlessly concentrates talent and power in bureaucracy, dampens independent civic capacity, and reduces the competitive scrutiny governments need to perform well. The PCP’s mixed system—some collective rules, lots of individual choice—preserves freedom and pluralism while still getting public goods funded. Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal+2Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal+2

The fiscal and political logic (“No tax increase without recompense”)

The PCP is Kimball’s answer to the long-run collision between aging-driven spending and political resistance to higher taxes. He argues we will need more revenue; the question is how to raise it with the least harm. His principle: “No tax increase without recompense”—if we must raise taxes, give taxpayers something they like in return. Here, the “something” is the power to direct the extra money to vetted nonprofits rather than to the general fund. This makes hikes more politically tolerable, reduces tax avoidance, and lets us take care of the poor, sick, and elderly without mechanically expanding the state. Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal+1

In his Quartz pieces bringing the PCP to a broader audience, he frames it as the alternative to the false choice of austerity vs. spending: shrink government’s footprint while still getting the job done via “a thousand points of light” in the nonprofit world. Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal

What qualifies as a “public contribution”?

To count toward the 100% credit, a donation must:

• Go to a nonprofit meeting high quality standards;

• Fund activities that could legitimately be government functions; and

• Substitute, to an important extent, for spending governments would otherwise likely do.

He illustrates likely high-priority PCP areas: poverty relief and social services, scientific and medical research, foreign aid that reaches people rather than regimes, and eldercare that helps seniors remain at home. By design, the program crowds out some regular charitable giving (which actually boosts net revenue) while crowding in focused, substitutive giving. Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal

Although religious congregations as such would not qualify (to preserve the “legitimate government function” standard), many affiliated service nonprofits could. Cultural institutions mainly serving the wealthy could be excluded; legislators would draw and adjust the boundary through ordinary democratic rulemaking. Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal+1

Distributional and macro effects he anticipates

Kimball thinks a PCP would tilt resources toward areas that current democratic budgeting under-prioritizes—science and foreign aid—while accepting that government likely remains better at national defense and certain minority-protection priorities. He envisions more total resources for the most humane objectives, because the program makes paying for them less painful and more engaging. Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal

On the macro side, the PCP addresses debt anxieties: it lets us fund what we must without either ballooning deficits or crushing, unpopular tax hikes. And because required giving is less hated than taxes—thanks to choice and social meaning—the program reduces the social waste of tax avoidance, a classic efficiency loss Kimball wants to minimize. Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal+1

Ethics and behavioral foundations

A recurring thread is that policy should work with human psychology. Kimball leans on two pillars:

• Consumption-based fairness (“Scrooge” argument). Ethically, we should tax appropriation for oneself—consumption—rather than savings that might later be donated or invested to benefit others. This perspective makes it feel less punitive to require high earners to direct resources to public purposes rather than simply remit more tax. Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal

• Non-monetary motives. People care about status, gratitude, community, and meaning. Building those into tax design (inspired by Scott Adams’s essay on how to tax the rich) softens resistance to contributing more and channels ambition into public-spirited action. Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal

He further argues that the PCP cultivates character: via cognitive dissonance, required giving nudges people to see themselves (and their children to see them) as contributors; they’re then more likely to volunteer time as well as money. Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal

Design details and guardrails

Kimball’s blog proposes and stress-tests the mechanics:

• Rates and base. The headline illustration is +10 percentage points on income above $75k per person (or $150k per couple), fully creditable with qualifying gifts. He notes policymakers could cap how much surtax can be offset by contributions, if desired, to reduce perceived advantages for the very rich while still requiring broader participation (so the program actually funds enough). Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal+1

• Eligibility & oversight. A regulator (using familiar nonprofit oversight) would certify organizations and police mission drift, ensuring activities genuinely substitute for government functions. Rules can evolve democratically; mixed systems aren’t inherently less legitimate than fully centralized ones. Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal

• Interaction with current programs. Do not cut direct public programs until decentralized efforts clearly cover specific areas. The PCP is additive at first, creating overlapping coverage and learning; then government can pare back where nonprofits have proven capacity. Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal

• Tax interaction. Because PCP gifts are narrower than general charitable giving and labeled as substitutes for government spending, they crowd out some ordinary donations (which raises revenue relative to a simple deduction expansion). That’s intentional, so the PCP relieves the budget. Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal

Anticipating the main objections

“Democratic priority-setting is better and more legitimate.” Kimball’s reply: a hybrid of democratic rulemaking (to set eligibility and guardrails) plus individual choice (to allocate within those bounds) is not less legitimate—and often better in creativity and accountability. Mill’s deeper worry is that overgrown states weaken the citizenry’s capacity to act independently; cultivating a vigorous civil society is itself a democratic good. Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal+1

“This empowers billionaires.” The PCP broadens directed giving beyond the ultra-rich; it requires higher earners—not just plutocrats—to either pay the surtax or direct it to vetted public-purpose nonprofits. Kimball embraces philanthropic pluralism while keeping the state as gap-filler for things that aren’t natural donation magnets. He also points to scholarship rebutting broad-brush critiques of mega-philanthropy. Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal

“Won’t people game it?” International analogs show design pitfalls and fixes. Japan’s Hometown Tax (a donor-choice system for local governments) spurred big flows, but in-kind gifts created perverse incentives; Japan eventually restricted gift values. The lesson: no rebates-in-disguise, clear caps/criteria, and administrative simplicity matter. Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal

What would it likely fund better?

Kimball’s lists are suggestive, not exhaustive:

• Poverty and social services. More nimble, locally adapted help; easier to scale what works and sunset what doesn’t.

• Science & medical research. Systematic under-prioritization in politics could be redressed by donor enthusiasm.

• Foreign aid to people (not regimes). Funds can flow directly to effective implementers.

• Eldercare innovation. Cheaper, better in-home supports to delay nursing-home entry. Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal

He repeatedly frames these as areas where nonprofits can beat government on cost and speed while remaining regulable for quality and equity. Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal

The bigger vision: less hatred of taxes, more love of giving

A subtext through the posts is changing the emotional valence of fiscal policy. Taxes are hated not only because money is taken, but because government monopolizes the choice of how it’s used. The PCP returns choice—within democratic rules—so the same dollars buy more goodwill, less evasion, and richer civic participation. It’s a way to meet Republican goals (smaller government, lighter coercion) and Democratic goals (robust care for the vulnerable) simultaneously. Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal+1

Bottom line

Miles Kimball’s blog builds a coherent, multi-layered case: fiscally, the PCP is a pragmatic release valve for long-run budget stress; politically, it is easier to swallow than plain tax hikes; institutionally, it cultivates a stronger civil society; behaviorally, it harnesses non-monetary motives; ethically, it aligns with consumption-focused taxation; administratively, it’s feasible with existing nonprofit oversight; and strategically, he urges a gradualist rollout—prove what nonprofits can do before trimming overlapping government programs.

If we must raise more money, raise it in a way people can love, or at least like—by letting them direct it to public purposes. That’s the essence of Kimball’s PCP. Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal+1

Sources (key posts, in Kimball’s own taxonomy):

• “How and Why to Expand the Nonprofit Sector as a Partial Alternative to Government: A Reader’s Guide” (six reasons; scope, legitimacy, J.S. Mill). Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal

• “No Tax Increase Without Recompense” (mechanics; definitions; examples; expected effects). Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal

• “Yes, There is an Alternative to Austerity vs. Spending: Reinvigorate America’s Nonprofits” (Quartz #12; politics and motivation). Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal

• “Off the Rails: How to Get the Recovery Back on Track” (Quartz #14; long-run fiscal framing). Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal

• “Inequality Is About the Poor, Not About the Rich” (cognitive dissonance and altruism under a PCP). Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal

• J.S. Mill series posts (freedom, civic capacity, limits of government). Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal+2Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal+2

• “Scott Adams’s Finest Hour: How to Tax the Rich” (non-monetary motives). Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal

• “Scrooge and the Ethical Case for Consumption Taxation” (ethical foundation). Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal

• Ryo Ishida on Japan’s Hometown Tax (design lessons). Confessions of a Supply-Side Liberal

Where Kimball revisits and elaborates (e.g., his Feldstein critique and 2021–2024 course pages), the arguments are the same spine: decentralize what we can, regulate it well, and use tax design that people won’t fight—to fund more of the public goods we actually want. Confession

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